Dear Frankie
2005; Emily Mortimer, Gerard Butler, Jack McElhone
Directed by Shona Auerbach
The storyline of this Scottish film sounds touching enough: single mother writes letters to her son, pretending to be son’s away-at-sea father. “Father’s” ship is coming to port; nine-year-old Frankie (a wise, unforgettable Jack McElhone) is expecting to finally meet his Da. Frankie’s mother (the luminously beautiful Emily Mortimer) hires a stranger to play the part.
And it is a beautiful story, a touching story. But the best moments are the most unexpected. The pace set by director Shona Auerbach is lilting and lingering and true to life. She doesn’t rush us to reconciliation or to words that will ease an awkward silence. As gentle and lovely as Dear Frankie is, it is also a tense film, one in which I found my heart pounding through many scenes, waiting to see or hear what would come next. No scene is as fraught with tension as the moment when Frankie meets the man (Gerard Butler) his mother has hired to be Frankie’s dad for the day. Almost every emotion in the human spectrum runs through us in those few moments.
Herein is the genius of Dear Frankie: that the filmmakers, Auerbach and writer Amy Gibb and each actor is creating a real story, is inhabiting a real role, a real life. (No, I don't mean that it's based on a true story, just that it's so genuine to how we feel, react, behave.) They are not acting a part or having the perfect screen kiss or laugh. They hold back, they hesitate, they suffer, they are silent for long moments, they experience a hundred feelings in the blink of an eye. We forget how pretend and glossy films usually are, how simulated the world they create, how artificial the responses we have to them. We forget, that is, until a film this true comes along and holds up a mirror to human experience.
This drink is a deep, hot cherry cider capped with a small dollop of whipped cream and shaved chocolate. I watched Dear Frankie recently on a chilly October night and it seems like a perfect autumn film, capturing so much of that season’s melancholy and changefulness. But you could (and should) watch it any time of year. The drink, on the other hand, is good for autumn, better for winter, and truly perfect for Christmas.
SPICY CHERRY CIDER
This cider is inspired by a recipe on Epicurious.com.
4 cups cherry juice (100% black cherry juice, such as R.W Knudson's)
2 cups apple juice (again, only the best: Tropicana, or another 100% apple)
1 cup brandy
2 tablespoons sugar
4 cinnamon sticks
20 whole cloves
1 large apple, cored and cut in quarters (peeling it isn't necessary)
1/3 cup whipping cream (optional)
1 ounce bitter sweet chocolate (optional)
Stir the cherry juice, apple juice, brandy, sugar, cinnamon, cloves and apple together in heavy-bottomed saucepan. Bring to a boil and reduce the heat to medium, stirring regularly. Simmer for ten minutes or so. (This isn't to reduce so much as it is to infuse the drink with the spices.) Remove from heat and strain out the cinnamon sticks, cloves and apple chunks. Discard the spices and the apple. (I also save the apple in the fridge sometimes and mash it's pulpy, garnet coloured, sweet spiciness into a bowl of thick, plain yogourt for my breakfast next morning.)
Pour the cider into 5 teacups or small mugs.
Whip the cream if using and shave the chocolate. Dollop some cream and sprinkle some chocolate onto each drink. Serve immediately. Serves 5.
2005; Emily Mortimer, Gerard Butler, Jack McElhone
Directed by Shona Auerbach
The storyline of this Scottish film sounds touching enough: single mother writes letters to her son, pretending to be son’s away-at-sea father. “Father’s” ship is coming to port; nine-year-old Frankie (a wise, unforgettable Jack McElhone) is expecting to finally meet his Da. Frankie’s mother (the luminously beautiful Emily Mortimer) hires a stranger to play the part.
And it is a beautiful story, a touching story. But the best moments are the most unexpected. The pace set by director Shona Auerbach is lilting and lingering and true to life. She doesn’t rush us to reconciliation or to words that will ease an awkward silence. As gentle and lovely as Dear Frankie is, it is also a tense film, one in which I found my heart pounding through many scenes, waiting to see or hear what would come next. No scene is as fraught with tension as the moment when Frankie meets the man (Gerard Butler) his mother has hired to be Frankie’s dad for the day. Almost every emotion in the human spectrum runs through us in those few moments.
Herein is the genius of Dear Frankie: that the filmmakers, Auerbach and writer Amy Gibb and each actor is creating a real story, is inhabiting a real role, a real life. (No, I don't mean that it's based on a true story, just that it's so genuine to how we feel, react, behave.) They are not acting a part or having the perfect screen kiss or laugh. They hold back, they hesitate, they suffer, they are silent for long moments, they experience a hundred feelings in the blink of an eye. We forget how pretend and glossy films usually are, how simulated the world they create, how artificial the responses we have to them. We forget, that is, until a film this true comes along and holds up a mirror to human experience.
This drink is a deep, hot cherry cider capped with a small dollop of whipped cream and shaved chocolate. I watched Dear Frankie recently on a chilly October night and it seems like a perfect autumn film, capturing so much of that season’s melancholy and changefulness. But you could (and should) watch it any time of year. The drink, on the other hand, is good for autumn, better for winter, and truly perfect for Christmas.
SPICY CHERRY CIDER
This cider is inspired by a recipe on Epicurious.com.
4 cups cherry juice (100% black cherry juice, such as R.W Knudson's)
2 cups apple juice (again, only the best: Tropicana, or another 100% apple)
1 cup brandy
2 tablespoons sugar
4 cinnamon sticks
20 whole cloves
1 large apple, cored and cut in quarters (peeling it isn't necessary)
1/3 cup whipping cream (optional)
1 ounce bitter sweet chocolate (optional)
Stir the cherry juice, apple juice, brandy, sugar, cinnamon, cloves and apple together in heavy-bottomed saucepan. Bring to a boil and reduce the heat to medium, stirring regularly. Simmer for ten minutes or so. (This isn't to reduce so much as it is to infuse the drink with the spices.) Remove from heat and strain out the cinnamon sticks, cloves and apple chunks. Discard the spices and the apple. (I also save the apple in the fridge sometimes and mash it's pulpy, garnet coloured, sweet spiciness into a bowl of thick, plain yogourt for my breakfast next morning.)
Pour the cider into 5 teacups or small mugs.
Whip the cream if using and shave the chocolate. Dollop some cream and sprinkle some chocolate onto each drink. Serve immediately. Serves 5.


Bake at 250 degrees Fahrenheit for 1 hour. Turn the oven off, but leave the meringues in the oven to cool for 20 minutes or so. Transfer to a wire rack to cool completely, peeling them off the parchment paper first.
